its not many young people who are  in control of their sexual status like you, so well done for waiting. Are you sure you want to give up for a moments pleasure, Deciding to be sexually active comes with responsibilities and also depends on ones values about sex. Some of the responsibilities include using protection for every sexual encounter and being emotionally mature enough to deal with being in a sexually active relationship. if you believe this is the man with whom you want to establish a lasting relationship, then you should feel confident to talk frankly with him about your feelings specifically you should talk about abstaining from sex until you are both more committed to the relationship and if you do plan to become sexually active you should be sure that you partner gets an HIV test you do not know who he had sex with before no matter what he tells you, this should be your bottom line. Remember that to reduce your risk of contracting sexually transmitted infections including HIV/Aids and unwanted pregnancies, its safer to abstain from sex until you are mature enough to handle the huge responsibilities that come with it.by DINO INNOCENT MAGADA