As usual when Schalk and I when we go a new site we normally start by building friendships, respecting and loving our friends, normally play soccer match, hanging around with them or join them with whatever they are doing and even sharing their homes. We do this non-judgmentally and unconditionally out of our hearts. Now this when it comes to the opposite sex (which makes me excited when we have a lady who will help in this case, I hope so) is very tricky and they are very tricky. This doesnt mean we are not working with female participants/beneficiaries, we have a lot of them, who are also our genuine friends who I personally respect and work together . My point is that when I was playing a soccer match for Mighty Birds FC vs Black Warriors and Paballelo Stars, during the match there was a beautiful girl who kept on calling my jersey number, which was 12. Normally from my experience of football I normally encounter that when you are having a good game, but here was a different story. During first half when I look outside, the girl who have been calling me is now standing driver 's door of our rented leaning on it. EEEish! When the second match finish which I even scored a penalty, i was in trouble with this girl, I tried to get into the car to change but she refused to step aside.And she told me she wants to go with me wherever I am going. As usual girls like this I have been encountered them million times work or off work. I just explained the situation in a friendly and not to make herself feel bad but to explain to her she doesnt need to throw herself to any man simply she sees survival, especially a man like me with a big head and gap between the teeth, she laughed and we became good friends and she will be helping more girls who were like her. But mainly is not to this in front of everyone which can lead to humiliation but to do it with respect and friendship. Girls in the cities and girls in the rural areas are talking different languages.