When children don't listen to the parent and refuse to take advises from good friends and teachers, he or she kept out his or her attitude to those who want to help. Most of them they think to be rude is the good thing and everything they do they think is right. they through their future away and pay attention to do bad things that would make them failure in life. Our brothers are always smoking drugs, dagga and abusing alcohol. They don't even respect elders I'm not talking about their dignity and if someone doesn't respect him or her self will never ever respect others. They only think about themselves. Our sisters get early pregnant in the age of 13 years when you try to give her some word of advice she said " if you don't want me and my boyfriend enjoy our life, are you going to sleep with me or have sex with me" and remember you were trying to help but end of the day you get some insults.

They only listen when they are in the hole of danger and at that moment is late, they should have prevented danger before it catch them. Like last time my family and I tried to advise one of my nephew he is abusing alcohol and smoking dagga, he couldn't listen and he was always fighting with his teachers at school up until his mother die and the person I'm talking about he is the first born and there three boys after him and one girl,he was 17 years old and rude he left his respect in the hospital after birth. Question is that what about those kids after him who is going to take care of them and give them good advice while he refuse to take the responsibility of being an elder. Now he has nothing and they chased him away at school when he go out to seek for a job there are requirements needed at least Grade 12 he doesn't have.

The best thing to avoid this situation is we must listen to others and respect each other and that thing will help us to find our dignity and once we respect we will achieve in life,we will make our life easier.