Why stay we on the earth except to grow? Just about anyone would agree that growing is good thing, but relatively few people dedicate themselves to the process.Why? because it requires change,and most people are reluctant to change.If we don't change we dont grow.if we don't grow we are not really living .Growt demands a temporary surrender of security.it may mean a giving up of familiar but limiting patterns,safe but unrewarding work,values no longer believed in,relationships that have lost their meaning.Taking a new step,unttering a new word,is what most people fear most.The real fear should be the opposite course.