First downfall of a man. I keep looking at every moment and what I see everyday is US, people, going down or losing the battle simply of shifting responsibility or blaming the others and not realizing we are part of the solution and problem. I always refer to myself, because I am not outside the circle, with all the blunders and failures I had or successes. Victory starts within me once I realize that I am no better than others and realise that I need others and the above Man to live, we are connected. And then of course take every responsibility and let the blame be put on me. I am saying all this because I am seeing some of my friends here in Mozambique are stuck in one place and keep singing the same song of complaint and blaming, they sang five years ago. I am always asking what are you/I are/am doing yourself/myself to minimize the problem. They will keep moaning, whining and worrying. Oh sorry I am already blaming the poor guys and girls. What am I doing to better the situation? Eeeeeeeeeeeeeish? Whether one got in a mess, as we are all in the mess, varying in the respective degree of its messiness, one needs to take responsibility and stop looking around to point fingers rather start NOW doing or taking right steps to remove the problem. I dont care what problem I encounter or others encounter or they are in, of course I will definitely share the problem with them but I always wont be there, but one needs to KNOW there are solutions right here where one is and stop looking around or RUN to so called RIGHT place for answers. Right here, right now. Now, Now Now, we have the solution. In every problem there is a solution, that why is called problem there is the opposite. Find out. It varies depending on the person. What 's your formula of life. I am not talking about egoism. I can say doing something to look great or to impress other fellows. Sorry this is a topic of its own.