This is the question that the organiser of the primary school tournament asked one of the coach who started a fight with another coach and since i got the skill from the life skills manual that we are having i went on and intervene to bring peace and resolve the conflict in a peaceful way and what i realise is that, this coach dont accept defeat and he want to instill this to the champs and is going to kill this boys because it is through defeat that you become great rather than always win and at a later stage you experience loss in this way you wont know how to respond to this kind of situation....all i can say is the life skills manual has power it is working for me this side.